tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11761373.post2444910899167416707..comments2023-05-19T10:45:51.868-05:00Comments on Fine Whine: Half a BeatVirginia Llorcahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08354795459855491623noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11761373.post-35158307495171929842012-01-01T11:20:55.764-06:002012-01-01T11:20:55.764-06:00Cute baby....love your blog name and your side pan...Cute baby....love your blog name and your side panels.<br /><br />First-time visitor.<br /><br />NEW FOLLOWER<br /><br />Elizabeth<br /><br />http://silversolara.blogspot.comElizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01522861943931628690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11761373.post-72499553897090422112011-12-30T20:12:01.937-06:002011-12-30T20:12:01.937-06:00Here's my addendum: I feel like my perceptions...Here's my addendum: I feel like my perceptions about people (is that the same as "Judge of Character"?) are usually pretty dead-on. However, more than once in my life, I have heard perceptions of myself and thought, "How the Hell did they figure that from what I said/did/wore/had a look on my face?" So here I am knowing exactly what everyone else is up to, but nobody ever knows what I am up to. Is that good or bad? And then there are husbands and children and family who think you "are" a certain way because of something you did or said once. And then there's the guy who always knows what you are thinking before you are. And I think it doesn't matter really what their perception of you is as long as they love you and are willing to accept it.francescahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11049989872640918826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11761373.post-58748731244579050592011-12-30T17:21:45.200-06:002011-12-30T17:21:45.200-06:00I really like your posts. There's something ve...I really like your posts. There's something very stream-of-consciousness about them, but not in the way we usually think of it. It's more like the structure, the rhythm, the way it kind of goes on for a while without a pause, then turns to the left or right, then collects in one spot for a moment, eddying, before moving back into the larger stream of what you're saying, until the end. I was wondering about the details of how your ex-friend completely mis-perceived you, but that's just me, being nosy. <br /><br />I also like how you said that if these things had happened when you were 22, you would have been in long-term therapy as a result. I've often felt that the mind is like wet cement. When we're younger, the impressions are stronger and more lasting, becoming more "set" as we grow older. Some of us get so ossified in later years, we need a jackhammer for anything to get through to us.<br /><br />And you are 100% right about love. Happy new year.Tulasi-Priyahttp://tulasipriya.comnoreply@blogger.com